boys just don't listening

i saw my friend facebook status before,
"you always say i just don't listen, yes! i can very confirm to tell you that boy are never listen, however you also never shut your mouth."
many friend comment on his post show they are agree with it. ya, i'm one of them. xD
not only us, i guess everyone also will agree with that, boy don't listen and girl like to talk. so what is the chemical reaction when two gender meet each other? nothing than that, just like an asteroid smash on earth. haha!

in this blog post, i will focus more on why boys never listen to other. why i focus on it? because, i'm male and i can say that i know what a boy thinking when a girl talk a lot beside his ears, i tried before. =.=

first, lets us start with the relationship between parents and son. teenagers normally would'nt listen much of their parents because a teenager want their own life. they don't want other people to disturb their life and decision. teenagers will reject their parents, however there are some difference between a son and a daughter. daughther may try to change their parents mind by giving a lot of idea and opinions. sons different, why? because they don't like to have conflict with parents, but on the same time, they would not agree with what parents saying. so, what they trying to do is just don't listen and avoid the problem and question given.

second, common things, couple. when conflict happen, boys less argue with the girls to win the conflict, they just keep quiet and let the girls keep talking. however on the same time they also not agree with what the girls talking, but they try to avoid from conflict so they keep quiet and not listening. because of this, a new conflict will come out again, and conflict would'nt stop and keep going. conflict only will stop when boys clam their girlfriends and did a lot to let her be happy, but never say anything to what their girlfriends complained. they not show that they are agree with the claim or dislike the claim. boys just avoid from conflict.

third, relationship between workers. when they facing a problem during work, girls and boys act differentlty. girls may take this problem to the surface to have different ideas with everyone. boys may keep quiet to find a solution to solve the problem. when this situation happening, boys will be very stress and hate everything that is disturbing him, in this time, if girls come and talk about the problem with him, boys would'nt listen because they are already in a stress condition, they just hope to be quiet and get a solution themselves. because of they are not listening to the partner, they will be claim as irresponsible and a lot of bad comment come into him.

from three common relationship above, did you all found the same thing about boy? boy always avoid from conflict, so they keep quiet and not listening. but actually in their mind they are thinking solution for the problems and how to solve the conflict. i, as a boy, also hope that every girl can understand that our way of think is different, we keep quiet does'nt mean that we not care about anything, but we just don't like to show it on our face.