few days ago i planned to go for haircut with my sister and she's working by the time i finishes my class.i had had to stay in the college to wait for my sister so that we can meet some where and drive only one car instead of two .after that we keep in touch with each other on the phone where are we suppposed to meet at and unfortunately my phone is almost out of battery. when she called me and she's telling me where i have to park my car and she pick me up my phone started to signal me that it's low battery .

so when we confirmed the parking location and i tell her that my hp is gonna out of battery soon and so she hang up.when i reached the location , my phone is totally out ! and i was about to call my sister .asking her where is she now but since my hp is out of battery , i have to wait for her.for like about 20 mins she's not even reaching yet..i decided to get down from the car and look around whether there is any public phone so that i can make phone calls to my sister.. And guess what she says??

she reached the salon already. she's telling me that she gonna pay first and some other day she will come when she's free and the hairstylist is free either. and i have to wait for my sister to meet me up. i slept in the car and i woke up when she honked me. we went to night market . while she was driving she tells me that why didnt i drove to there .then i was like i tot you meeting me up ?? she say cancelled already what then..
i was speechless at that moment. my sister say okay it was all misinterpretation because of my phone anyway.. thought it was the way we thought but other people think that we understand what are they talking about.

i experienced the selective listening situation few days ago which when i was in my friend's house. basically, me and my friends were sharing some news with each other.While we were watching movie some of them were talking behind and eventually all of us will turn to the back and listen. However , there is this girl she was all the while watching the movie and laughing (because the movie is hilarious) and she didnt know what we talking about. When we mentioned her name Miss J then she was like hah??

then there goes Miss K says "J you seriously is a selective listening person, just now you were not listening to us and now u started to answer us when you heard your name".

then Miss J replied " Of course. I dont know what you guys talking about so when i heard my name i thought you guys talking about me"

i believe that selective listening is you listen what is related to you and what is about you . For example , when you heard people talking and mentioned your name , you will eventually turn to that person and says "yes".. other than that he/she doesnt wanna care about if is not related to them.

we will experienced what we've learned in human communication in our daily life which can improve our communication skills.