selective listening in real life.

i experienced the selective listening situation few days ago which when i was in my friend's house. basically, me and my friends were sharing some news with each other.While we were watching movie some of them were talking behind and eventually all of us will turn to the back and listen. However , there is this girl she was all the while watching the movie and laughing (because the movie is hilarious) and she didnt know what we talking about. When we mentioned her name Miss J then she was like hah??

then there goes Miss K says "J you seriously is a selective listening person, just now you were not listening to us and now u started to answer us when you heard your name".

then Miss J replied " Of course. I dont know what you guys talking about so when i heard my name i thought you guys talking about me"

i believe that selective listening is you listen what is related to you and what is about you . For example , when you heard people talking and mentioned your name , you will eventually turn to that person and says "yes".. other than that he/she doesnt wanna care about if is not related to them.

we will experienced what we've learned in human communication in our daily life which can improve our communication skills.