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best friend become stranger .
Posted by Almighty Janette
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1/16/2010 06:50:00 PM
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Janette Kwan Bee Leng
how come a best friend of yours can be a stranger ? isn't it strange ?
yes . why is this happening ?
because lacking of communication between one and another. relationship seems to be faded time to time if did not keep in touch with each other. either sms or calling will do to keep a good and lasting relationship.
the following is my own experiences.
Me and my friend were good friend since from primary school. We used to be with each other everytime when we were in school. Same goes to when we were in secondary school. Even though , we were not in the same class but we still find each other after school and walk together. When time comes , a blink of eye we were in college and coincidently we were in the same college too but she's in further intake. Due to completing assignments and studying for examinations we seldom go for outing.
So i planned with other friends to go out together , maybe for lunch or for a drink. I do not believe that ,over a small matter she's out of sudden kind of angry and she scolded me using words while smsing. She have her own reasons why she can not go out with us because she have to help out her family and i do understand your situation. If you tell me in a more proper way i will forgive and try to understands you. I should have apologize to you too because i used those words that i normally use to talk with my friends in college that i dont even know it will hurt your feelings. After that, she's told me that we were from different background so i dont understand what is she doing now. It's not that matter , is because you are moody u push all the blame to me. Isnt this unfair for me ?? Anyway, everything is over and our friendship is back to normal now because you know that you are wrong too.
The conclusion is due to lacking of communication with each other our friendship will fade off easily because we no longer understand what each other thinking. When we talk we do share thoughts and everything happened around us so that we know what is happening around each other. We can understand each other more there will be no conflict occurs between people. Conflicts normally happen when people misunderstood each other and they assume things happen the way they thought it would be. Do not assuming when you not sure about something and ask when you are curious to know about it. These is how people start communicating.
yes . why is this happening ?
because lacking of communication between one and another. relationship seems to be faded time to time if did not keep in touch with each other. either sms or calling will do to keep a good and lasting relationship.
the following is my own experiences.
Me and my friend were good friend since from primary school. We used to be with each other everytime when we were in school. Same goes to when we were in secondary school. Even though , we were not in the same class but we still find each other after school and walk together. When time comes , a blink of eye we were in college and coincidently we were in the same college too but she's in further intake. Due to completing assignments and studying for examinations we seldom go for outing.
So i planned with other friends to go out together , maybe for lunch or for a drink. I do not believe that ,over a small matter she's out of sudden kind of angry and she scolded me using words while smsing. She have her own reasons why she can not go out with us because she have to help out her family and i do understand your situation. If you tell me in a more proper way i will forgive and try to understands you. I should have apologize to you too because i used those words that i normally use to talk with my friends in college that i dont even know it will hurt your feelings. After that, she's told me that we were from different background so i dont understand what is she doing now. It's not that matter , is because you are moody u push all the blame to me. Isnt this unfair for me ?? Anyway, everything is over and our friendship is back to normal now because you know that you are wrong too.
The conclusion is due to lacking of communication with each other our friendship will fade off easily because we no longer understand what each other thinking. When we talk we do share thoughts and everything happened around us so that we know what is happening around each other. We can understand each other more there will be no conflict occurs between people. Conflicts normally happen when people misunderstood each other and they assume things happen the way they thought it would be. Do not assuming when you not sure about something and ask when you are curious to know about it. These is how people start communicating.
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